#494. Childfree & Solo? How to ignore people & this judgmental society for life! Survival Guide!!!
Originally uploaded: December 10th, 2023
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/IDQiEAOKpDk
https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson
*I'm behind on here
Original Youtube Description:
#1. Let your big sister, me, take the lead on this.
#2. I do give you some insight on where I'm coming from.
#3. What it boils down to? No matter where you swing, we need to show compassion towards each other.
LINKS IN SUPPORT OF SINGLE PEOPLE.
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/18837/single-by-choice/
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/15304/am-i-meant-to-be-alone-destined-to-stay-single/
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/18428/why-being-single-is-better/
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/12143/how-to-be-happy-alone/
FYI. I figured out years ago I'm a better freebird. On the other hand, listening to well intentioned advice made me unhappy. I can do and be bad myself. What you see is what you get. Advice. if you are a guy, especially a guy friend that likes me romantically? Don't. Like what you see? A person is a person, despite the view. I do not care what I look like to you. (Ex boyfriends made it clear and I got the memo.) I'm not a pick, and don't want to be caught. I make a better friend, auntie and cousin. What ever you got to do to get yourself to stop liking me, put yourself through that process. I'm very protective of my peace and very picky about who I let in my sanctuary. Mental health and peace means more to me than being center of attention, being liked or fitting in. The drama, the stress and time is not worth it to me, whew chile let somebody else do it. I found my lanes, staying in them and don't care what people think of it.
****And yes I have and do date, but I keep that private and rarely post boyfriend girlfriend photos. I run my mouth on these videos, I create quote videos, I have a fitness channel. I travel. I give speeches on causes that mean a lot to me. I live a full life. There's enough of my shit out there already, and I do have a right to maintain some privacy in certain areas of my life. I wear several hats, been involved in dozens of startups. I'm an individual, with individual hobbies, dreams and goals regardless of my relationship status and I empathize that quite a bit.
Lume helps me avoid smelling like a goat. https://lumedeodorant.refr.cc/aleshapeterson222
These music projects were supposed to be posthumous, but I made a specific page just for them. First 2 Vols only! Lets go! https://sslickmixtapes.bandcamp.com/
https://soundcloud.com/s-slickmixtapes
I'm an athlete for EPN Supplements. If supplements are your thing, go here and use my discount code APeterson for a 10% discount. https://ep-nutrition.com?aff=9201
I'm Mia Kitsone Ambassador, grab some glasses: https://miakitsone.com/?ref=xIBEJAaiNwDWn0
BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/
BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/
Tik Tok: petersonalesha
Facebook: Alesha "Silky Slick" Peterson
Twitter: aleshapeterson
Youtube Link: https://youtu.be/IDQiEAOKpDk
https://linktr.ee/aleshapeterson
*I'm behind on here
Original Youtube Description:
#1. Let your big sister, me, take the lead on this.
#2. I do give you some insight on where I'm coming from.
#3. What it boils down to? No matter where you swing, we need to show compassion towards each other.
LINKS IN SUPPORT OF SINGLE PEOPLE.
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/18837/single-by-choice/
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/15304/am-i-meant-to-be-alone-destined-to-stay-single/
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/18428/why-being-single-is-better/
https://www.aconsciousrethink.com/12143/how-to-be-happy-alone/
FYI. I figured out years ago I'm a better freebird. On the other hand, listening to well intentioned advice made me unhappy. I can do and be bad myself. What you see is what you get. Advice. if you are a guy, especially a guy friend that likes me romantically? Don't. Like what you see? A person is a person, despite the view. I do not care what I look like to you. (Ex boyfriends made it clear and I got the memo.) I'm not a pick, and don't want to be caught. I make a better friend, auntie and cousin. What ever you got to do to get yourself to stop liking me, put yourself through that process. I'm very protective of my peace and very picky about who I let in my sanctuary. Mental health and peace means more to me than being center of attention, being liked or fitting in. The drama, the stress and time is not worth it to me, whew chile let somebody else do it. I found my lanes, staying in them and don't care what people think of it.
****And yes I have and do date, but I keep that private and rarely post boyfriend girlfriend photos. I run my mouth on these videos, I create quote videos, I have a fitness channel. I travel. I give speeches on causes that mean a lot to me. I live a full life. There's enough of my shit out there already, and I do have a right to maintain some privacy in certain areas of my life. I wear several hats, been involved in dozens of startups. I'm an individual, with individual hobbies, dreams and goals regardless of my relationship status and I empathize that quite a bit.
Lume helps me avoid smelling like a goat. https://lumedeodorant.refr.cc/aleshapeterson222
These music projects were supposed to be posthumous, but I made a specific page just for them. First 2 Vols only! Lets go! https://sslickmixtapes.bandcamp.com/
https://soundcloud.com/s-slickmixtapes
I'm an athlete for EPN Supplements. If supplements are your thing, go here and use my discount code APeterson for a 10% discount. https://ep-nutrition.com?aff=9201
I'm Mia Kitsone Ambassador, grab some glasses: https://miakitsone.com/?ref=xIBEJAaiNwDWn0
BONFIRE: NEW SHIRTS OUT NOW! https://www.bonfire.com/aleshapeterson/
BONFIRE STORE: https://www.bonfire.com/store/aleshapeterson/
Tik Tok: petersonalesha
Facebook: Alesha "Silky Slick" Peterson
Twitter: aleshapeterson
